an email from jiamin.......hehe....i will highlight the part i agree....hehe

>>>>>ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

> >> >TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

> >> >THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

> >> >FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.

> >> >FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.

> >> >SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

> >> >SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

> >> >EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

> >> >NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

> >> >TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

> >> >ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

> >> >TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

> >> >THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

> >> >FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

> >> >FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

> >> >SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson

> >> >SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.

> >> >EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

> >> >NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

> >> >TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

> >> >TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.